When it comes to female sexual pleasure, a lot of the focus is centered on the clitoris as the ultimate spot to tease, tickle, lick, and suck. If your partner is fully satisfied with external clitoral stimulation, then you’ve done a great job, but why not explore if you can push things further and give an even better performance? After all, there’s a lot more pleasure to be had than simply paying attention to the little nub that you can see.
The clitoris is actually a larger organ than most people realize, measuring up to 10 centimeters in size. The 8,000 nerve endings that make the clitoris super sensitive to stimuli are actually in an internal structure that can extend well into the pelvis, and the best way to reach them is through vaginal penetration. You don’t necessarily have to go too deep to reach all these spots but buying dildos in the Philippines can make exploration easier and a lot more fun. Let’s take a more intimate look at the four erogenous points you should aim for.
The G-Spot
Next to the clitoris, this is probably the most-talked about part for an experienced lover to find. The hype is not at all surprising because the G-spot is actually a zone where the paired crura of the clitoris meets the front of the vaginal wall. It’s only about a third of the way from the opening of the vagina, behind the pubic bone, and feels fleshy.
This area is also where the urethral sponge and Skene’s glands are located. While you may not be familiar with these body parts, their proximity to the G-spot is also the reason why stimulating this can result in what’s called female ejaculation or squirting. If this is something you or your partner want to try, you can reach the G-spot by inserting two fingers into the vagina, palm side up, and flexing your fingers towards you. Gently press against the anterior wall until you find the spot that feels most pleasurable for your partner. While it is possible to bring them to an orgasm by just using your hands, the angle is a difficult position to hold so it’s best to use a G-spot dildo or vibrator to pleasure them instead.
The V-Spot
When it comes to the vagina’s pleasure points, there’s none more accessible than the V-spot. The vestibule is the area right at the opening of the vagina but it tends to get neglected as lovers focus on either the clitoris or reaching a deeper spot. It’s unfortunate that this spot is so often overlooked, because there are a lot of nerve endings right at this area, with many of them coming close to the surface. So before you dive right in, make sure to show a little love to the V-spot.
Reaching the V-spot is as simple as parting the labia minora to expose the entrance to the vagina. From here, you can use a finger or two to lightly trace the edges back and forth. Use your tongue to lick from top to bottom in long, languorous strokes or quick and persistent flicks. Stimulating the whole of this area should feel good for your partner but you can also choose to focus all your attention on the most sensitive area, which is the base of the vaginal opening,
The A-Spot
Just past the G-spot is another erogenous point called the A-spot. The name is derived from its location, which like the G-spot is also on the anterior fornix or front wall of the vagina. However, the A-spot is farther into the vagina and closer to the opening of the cervix.
Reaching the A-spot with just your fingers can be difficult because of how deeply it is embedded, but the good news is that there are two ways to stimulate this spot. The first way is by using a G-spot vibrator, which has an upward curve that makes it easier to reach the A-spot. You can also stimulate this area when you have sex in a doggy style position. Entering from the back allows for deeper penetration, which is needed to reach the A-spot.
The O-Spot
It’s also known as the C-spot because this zone is practically on the cervix, which is the structure that immediately follows your vagina. This area may be the hardest to reach because it is very deeply situated but the full body orgasm that can result from stimulating this area makes it worth the extra effort. You can reach the O-spot with the help of a vibrator or with deep penetration, but there is an easier option: just use the back door.
The rectum and the vagina are practically right next to each other so during anal sex, you are actually pleasuring the vagina as well. You may be stimulating either the O-spot or the A-spot during this activity, depending on whether you are reaching the anterior wall (A-spot) or the posterior wall (O-spot). For best results, opt for slow but deep thrusts over quick but shallow pumps. Make sure to use plenty of lubricant and to change condoms if switching from anal to vaginal penetration.
Because all its different parts are inside the body, the vagina can seem like a singularly mysterious space but it’s not impossible to map out. It takes patience and the willingness of both partners to explore the different ways that vaginas experience pleasure. Just remember to focus on the fun aspect rather than treating your exploration sessions as an in-depth study.
